Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I al

What have you told him? Maybe it all depends on your approach to the problem. As a woman, you can either demand him to stop (which will not stop him from doing it but will conseal it from you) or make him feel bad about doing it.

Ask him why he does it, make him feel as if he were some kind of pervert, use phrases like "that girl could be your daughter" or stuff like that.

On the other hand, maybe you should let him have some "recreational" curiosity. The problem is that you cannot know for sure if he's not going to contact any of those girls. It's easy when someone tells you to have more confidence in yourself, that he's only fooling around with his eyes... but nothing is for certain. The devil makes work for idle hands, I've heard.

Just... talk to him again. Calmly. Explain your suspicion, what bothers you, your concerns, ask him what does his curiosity about myspace girls actually mean. Confront him with honesty and try to get an honest answer.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

threaten him with divorce.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Look at guys' myspace pages! ha ha

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

sounds likes the little ones... sounds kinda disgusting i would ask him what he enjoys out of it...if he says nothing then you know heres a diff reason...

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Block the ability to view the MySpace pages.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

What is he doing that for? In and of itself its harmless, but its too easy for him to shoot a couple of "harmless" emails. I agree he shouldnt be doing it. Ummm... cut his parts off maybe.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Set up a fake page With pics and contact him. Decide from there what you should do.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

oh boy. if you don't do something about the way you look, your marriage is doomed. findout who he is looking at on myspace. you need to be more like them.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

that depends are they hott.? haha just kidding ......cut the internet at your home .... if your the one who manages the finances say you cant afford the internet.....

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

dont get over it tell stop if he really loves you he will stop or you can look at guys on myspace see...how he likes it!

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

You both need to grow up.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Uh...how old is your husband? And how old are the girls he's looking at?

It's not really something you can control...

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

well it depends on how old your husband is. if he's 50 and looking at 14 year old girls myspace then thats a huge issue. either way, you should still talk to him because if hes still doing it after you have talked to him that means he hasnt gotten the message yet and you havent given him the messsage. be assertive. try threatening him. haha lol

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Become the administrator on your computer and block the site...

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

If you are not getting any effect out of your talks block him from the internet.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Every time you catch him doing it, hit him hard over the head. It's like a dog, eventually he'll start to realise, Girl's Myspace Pages = Hit On Head.

Maybe he'll learn. Don't get your hopes up tho, he is a guy!

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

if you asked him to stop, and he hasn't, he does not care...

if you only told him it upset you...you have to ask him to stop, or it's over...

if he knows how you feel, and still does it, he does not care...

so, you have option to divorce, because this is cheating...

or, you can get rid of the computer for a month, send it to a friend's, see if he freaks, if he freaks, too bad... he can find something else to do like family stuff!!!... it's an obsession that has to freakin' stop... or it will get worse!

it all basically boils down to morals standards values and stuff... if he does not fit the bill, he has to change to fit the bill, or this will never work!

and I agree w/ someone below... lusting is wrong... these days people fancy it up by calling lust "fantasy"... don't let him talk you out of how you feel!

good luck!

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

delete his profile and make one with him... make rules and tell him that it's offensive to you and if he loves you he shouldnt want you to feel like that,

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

start looking at other guys' pages if he complains tell him off or something like that

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Get over it, unless you have reason to think he's cheating.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

i wouldnt like that either if my wife did that..I would take the computer away if he cant be trusted, or block that site..If he is doing that , can only imagine what else he may be doing.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

why dont u start looking at men.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

OK, so he's checking out women on myspace, and in front of you. He's married, not dead. He obviously isn't hiding it so don't worry about it. I'm sure there are some other men that you find attractive, right? As long as he isn't contacting them or being obsessed with pages of teenagers you most likely have nothing to worry about.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Wow I hope none of the other people who gave you advice are married-Not worthy of divorce but definitly not acceptable-Lusting after other women is not acceptable behavior-Your husband needs to take his vows seriously and get a life-Talk to your pastor or maybe another male that you and your husband know mutually who could hepl you explain to your husband how that makes you feel-But do not tolerate it, it is not acceptable behavior

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

If he's old then he is a pervered, and I wouldn't want to be married to a pedophile. But I don't see anything wrong with looking, as long as it doesn't escalate from there.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Brake the computer or activate the parental controls on the computer.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

get over it.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Get a divorce why you can!

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

Stop being so jealous. It's just an online thing.

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

he's a normal, healthy all Amercan male....when he starts looking at little boys butt's is when you start to worry....

Husband looks at girls' myspace pages and I can't stand it, how should I handle this? I already talked to him

He is a grown man so he can do whatever he wants. You have the right to divorce him if he is cheating on you.