When I met my boyfriend, he had just moved to Chicago form San Antonio and he already had a myspace page. I didnt mind him continuing to communicate with his friends. However, I have read a couple of his notes that he has sent to females he hasnt met in Chicago and he is asking these girls to show him around the city! ("I'm looking for cute girls to show me around the city") He doesnt think its disrespectful nor a sign of cheating although he knows I dont agree with it at all! He has even as far as to offer his password to me to prove that he is only looking for friendships only. However, I dont believe him and he wont stop soliciting these girls for tours around Chicago...Am I wrong for feeling this way? After all, I show him around enough...Plus, he lives with me...For now....
Is asking girls on myspace.com to show you around disrespectful when you are in a relationship?
wow... okay, why isn't he asking guys to show him around the city? is it only girls??/ maybe he's looking for a back up just in case you two don't work out since he lives with you....
Is asking girls on myspace.com to show you around disrespectful when you are in a relationship?
that is very wrong.."cute girls" he is looking to meet someone over there bc if he just wants to meet people then he shouldnt be asking girls especially saying cute girls..taking his password wont help bc he can always delete things on there just like email...its not cheating but its not right what if u were looking for cute guys to show u around town how would he feel about it..the whole myspace thing is wrong if he is not using it just to keep in contact with old friends
Is asking girls on myspace.com to show you around disrespectful when you are in a relationship?
As a guy, I find it disrespectful to you. I can understand where he is coming from, I wouldn't want a guy showing me around either, but to openly say he wants a cute girl to show him around is wrong. Besides, he should be asking the cutest one (you) to show him around, not other women.
What you can is post saying you are looking for cute guys to show you around and see how he likes that. I bet you he won't.
Is asking girls on myspace.com to show you around disrespectful when you are in a relationship?
YES YES YES that's disrespectful especially because he's prefacing it with "cute girls". If he just wanted to be shown around he'd probably recruit guys too because they'd know where all the cool guy "stuff" is like sports bars, shops, arcades, pool halls etc... It sounds like he's using living with you as a safety net while he enjoys exploring the city and ALL it offers. He's not settled down with you or putting your relationship above himself.
Just because he offers you his password does not mean anything, he's smarter than that I'm sure and probably just deletes and empties his trash can enough to never leave any "evidence" around. Is he inviting you to go on these innocent tours with these cute girls with him? NO! You need to have a serious talk and let him know how much you mean it when you tell him this stops or you're done with him.
Guys who aren't looking to cheat, never cheated before and are committed to you do not act this way. I truly believe that for the most part guys and girls in a serious relationship have no business having alone time with people of the opposite sex especially if they didn't know them before you two started dating. It's incredibly disrespectful. Kick him to the curb.
Is asking girls on myspace.com to show you around disrespectful when you are in a relationship?
If he was just looking for people to meet and tour around with, and if you were invited, that would be one thing. Hey, it's hard moving to a new city, and nice to make friends. But specifically looking for "cute girls" to show him around, and he's not making any mention of you? Sounds to me like he's hoping for more than a tour of the city, even if he hasn't had any luck with that yet.
Is asking girls on myspace.com to show you around disrespectful when you are in a relationship?
Uh.....not okay. I certainly wouldn't tolerate that. What reason would he have to do this? He has you and you two should be going out and about to see Chicago. Sounds like he is looking around and why does he say they have to be "cute" if he is looking for friends only. He can also give these girls his regular email and phone number through myspace, so even though he shows you his myspace, doesn't mean he isn't communicating with these girls another way...know what I mean. Time to check up on everything....not just myspace. I wouldn't put up with it....that's just me though. Good luck and I hope it works out!
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