Is it right that I am upset because my boyfriend is talking to girls on myspace?

I discovered that my boyfriend of a year is communicating with girls on myspace. He's leaving them comments about how sexy they are and saying they are cute and so on. This is border line cheating right? He is in the wrong right? Or am I crazy? I could really use some advice. Thanks

Is it right that I am upset because my boyfriend is talking to girls on myspace?

He is not cheating but it is a form of emotional abandonment, he is not being emotionally available to you.

You are in a situation where you are going to be watching him like a hawk, maybe even spy on him, to make sure that little dog doesn't stray. Can you deal with that? There are no right or wrong answers to that question, whatever you decide is fine for you.

Is it right that I am upset because my boyfriend is talking to girls on myspace?

I think it's fair for you to feel the way you do. But it depends some people don't mind when their gf/bf "flirt". The world today is a lot simpler for people to "cheat", and it certainly depends how you define cheating.

Is it right that I am upset because my boyfriend is talking to girls on myspace?

its not technically cheating as almost everyone does this, they do it because they would feel bad leaving mean comments on myspace.

but if it does get to you, talk to him about it and tell him you dont like it.

Is it right that I am upset because my boyfriend is talking to girls on myspace?

If you trust him, you shouldn't feel this way. Do you have confidence in this relationship? Is it stable or is he always the flirty one? If so, you have every right to be concerned, I guess. Why not let him have a taste of his own medicine and do the same thing with guys in myspace. Pick out hot guys and add them to your list, and see what he thinks of that ;)

Is it right that I am upset because my boyfriend is talking to girls on myspace?

Your boyfriend does have opinions on other girls. As long as it's just comments about how they look and nothing more I don't think there's anything to worry about. If he's leaving comments about what he'd like to do to them then maybe you can dig deeper.

Is it right that I am upset because my boyfriend is talking to girls on myspace?

Well, I have the same experience as well and when i confront my bf about it, he said I was just plain paranoid. Of course you are right to be upset!! When will guys learn we girls are very sensitive to issues like these? I don't call that cheating, but it's definitely flirting...let him know how you feel gal, or you'd go crazy thinking about it yourself.

Is it right that I am upset because my boyfriend is talking to girls on myspace?

Well...Lets see here. It has been my experience that if they are willing to go that far then they are willing to go farther. I had an experience where my computer had a virus and when i turn in on and went to myspace.com it immediately logged into his page. Lets just say that I found things that I idn't want to find. A little flirting is ok but too much and you have a problem. Especially if he is messaging one person often as opposed to many people as this may be a sign that he has found some real interest in this person...beware!

Is it right that I am upset because my boyfriend is talking to girls on myspace?

You have the right to feel that way, and you don't have the right to stop him from doing this because he is not fully committed to you, I mean you guys are not engaged or married. So it is only boyfriend and girlfriend, in my opinion committing has to be on paper as well, not just by staying with each other for one year, both of you could just leave the relationship any time because their was no commitment. So it is up to you what you want to do.