Girls on Myspace??

if i am engaged and i add people on my myspace friends list (including girls) and my fiance gets mad because she dont know them or dont like them and threatens to break up with me for that....do you think thats stupid?

Girls on Myspace??

First of all, I just want to tell Sludge_Rocker that I thought his answer was great...... and very true....

How solid is the relationship? Is everything else OK, or is she this controlling all of the time? The reason I ask is that it sounds like she's got a lot of insecurities and jealousy issues and if she gets this upset about myspace, then this is a much bigger problem that your going to have to deal with sooner or later. As Sludge said, it won't stop there...... Does she go through your phone? Can you go out with the guys without her throwing a fit or giving you the silent treatment? If so, handle up or postpone your wedding until she can work out her trust issues, because this doesn't just go away.... it only gets worse.

I am a female, and I am in a committed relationship, and YES LADIES, I, TOO, AM ON MYSPACE....... I have many men on my page that I speak to from time to time and my boyfriend has female friends of his own. I am dumbfounded that this is even an issue, because its something we've never even thought about as a problem and we have lived together for over a year... She needs to get a hobby or make some friends of her own, because in my opinion, how can she turn you on or make you want her when she's so busy bitching about meaningless acquaintances on a networking site. Surely, she's got more important things to do.

However, I'm going on the assumption that your just chatting with female "myspacers" in the spirit of networking and having things in common. Where I would have an issue is if you were emailing alot and talking with one another on the phone and sneaking around about it..... In which case, if the roles were reversed, I'm sure you'd be pissed off too, but other than that you're not doing anything wrong and you should tell your girl to get off the gas... There's got to be some level of trust to make any relationship work, especially marriage and she clearly does not trust you. No man wants to be told what to do and this will only smother you.

And by the way, not all women are insecure like some of the ones that answered your question... If a woman feels secure in herself and her relationship then something this silly would not be an issue. It proves that you are a decent guy just by asking the question... It shows your at least a little concerned about what you should do. Come on, girls... it's myspace...sheesh is right!!!

Girls on Myspace??

this is such a long story lol.. sounds like a bit of what i said in a shorter version... shes insecure. no point in trying to write a book to justify something that doesnt need justification.. shes sensitive and insecure and probably jealous... GET A LIFE Report It

Girls on Myspace??

she thinking you are a playa

Girls on Myspace??

yes, and you shouldnt be together if shes THAT crazy.

Girls on Myspace??

I think that you should put yourself in her postion would you like her talking to guys on the internet at all hours of the night to some guys that you dont know?

Girls on Myspace??

listen to your fiance, girls on myspace are not for you!

Girls on Myspace??

Stupid on both sides...hers for issuing an ultimatum and yours for adding female friends to your list and not keeping the lines of communication open.

Girls on Myspace??

Only if you have given her reason to doubt you in the first place. If not then maybe she is guilty.

Girls on Myspace??

That does sound kind of out there but are you adding random girls that you dont know? I wouldnt be okay with that. Its fine if its a cousin, old friend or highschool buddy. If you're adding random people thats making her feel uncomfortable then I wouldnt do it.

Girls on Myspace??

Do YOU know the girls you're adding on myspace?

Why are you adding them? Because they're attractive? To rack up friends points?

Then it's not stupid.

OR, if they're people you have talked to and become friends with...

You might have had told her about them...

But she shouldn't break up with you about it.

Girls on Myspace??

no. it's a completely legitimate reason to be angry with you. but she also needs to understand that you can have friends, all you need to do is be completely open and honest about everything and there shouldn't be a problem.

Girls on Myspace??

Not really......you are engaged, why do you need to talk to girls online? It starts out simple and then you start liking one, lying starts, sneaking around, etc. Some therapists say it is the same as cheating. Would you like her talking to men online, knowing they might start liking her and you could lose her? She is right to not like it. You should be more thoughtful of her, why choose strangers over how she feels? How much do you love her?

Girls on Myspace??

I do think it's a bit petty, but you have to put yourself in your fiancees shoes.... what if she were the ones adding people on her myspace? how would that affect you? Now, I think that if it'll make her happy and if it'll cause less drama, is it too much to ask to appease her? I think that if you guys are planning to start a life together, you need to start compromising with each other.

Girls on Myspace??

Friends are friends, even if they are of the opposite sex. If she's that jealous, then you are in for a rough marriage. If you cannot communicate with your fiance, then it may be a bad idea to get married. Sounds like she's too controling and if she doesn't stop, then your marriage will not work.

Girls on Myspace??

well being someone who loves myspace.. i think shes a little bit insecure.. you just have to reassure her that your her man and really its only having friends on your friends list that like the bands and stuff as you do.. really isnt that personal.... tell her to come look, and tell her she can have access to it if shes worried... try to get her to maybe have her own, and see why its such a cool site:)

sillly to break up with you over that.. but i guess ppl who dont know what myspace is all about wouldnt understand.. so show her..

Girls on Myspace??

No. People meet people to date or cheat with on myspace. Do you think it would be okay to take a girl's phone number and let her e-mail you her pictures? If sure your fiance wouldn't think so. Myspace allows people to talk with a lot less trouble.

Girls on Myspace??

No it is not stupid. You need to have a respect for your fiance and if she doesn't like it , then what is the harm in not accepting them, or getting rid of them as your friend? Most of the time those "hot girls" on myspace are just bots anyways and will take over your bulletins and page with spam. She is actually just saving you time and frustration. I think it is wise to limit friends on your myspace page to REAL friends you have met in person, coworkers and people who share the same interests. If there is someone particular on your page that she does not like, explain them to her, maybe she will see that there is no harm, if she still doesn't like them on there, think about what is really important, your soon to be wife or a girl you don't really know on a webpage.

Girls on Myspace??

If you are engaged you shouldn't have the need to add girls anywhere. It doesn't sound like you're mature enough to be engaged.

Girls on Myspace??

Yes %26amp; No.

There are some wild chicks on myspace. People have pretty graffic pix's on their also. Some people say their "networking" but whatever. If people click on there, most of the time they are making arrangements to meet in real life. I would be mad if my man was acting like he had something to hide. But if your open with her about it then she shouldnt be upset.

Girls on Myspace??

Yes I do. I think that's very stupid, because my girlfriend does the same thing to me. She is always going through my Friends space and asking me who each girl is. The guys are okay, but she always asks me about the girls. She's gone through my cell phone as well, to see if there are any numbers in there that she does not recognize right-immediately. Oooh... and the thing that irks me the most is when I tell her I was on yahoo messenger and I was expecting her to get on and talk -- and I am instantly hit with the question "Who were you talking to on Yahoo Messenger?"

Buddy, I think if this trend continues it might only get worse and worse for you as your girlfriend becomes more and more overprotective. And jealousy can ruin a relationship. That kind of split-second-overprotectiveness is making me sick of my girlfriend and I am seriously about break-up with her for it because she only goes spiraling further into it. If your girlfriend does you like mine does, and wants to keep you on a leash, you know it's frickin' time to get away from her, run fast, and don't look back.

Oh, and whilst I'm on it, just take a look at some of the obnoxious answers that people have given you: rat-a-tat-tat "you're not mature enough to be engaged." I would seriously consider shitting on people like that, they don't know you personally. They are all just seriously over-protective women who are control-freaks and they do not know the first thing about you, and here they all are jumping to all these ridiculous conclusions that you know these girls in person and that you are talking to them -- you never said a thing like that in your post, and manipulative little control-freaks like these have a habit of cutting-down anything that doesn't feel just Charmin-soft to them. I just think girls need to give a man some privacy instead of jumping to conclusions. They wonder why men cheat on them, sheesh?

Girls on Myspace??

first of all! if you don't know the FEMALES that your excepting onto your my space I would have to say that there is not reason for it! for one if you don't know them why bother and second my space is not a popularity contest which lots of people seem to think and most of all if she is uncomfortable with it respect that and set your MY SPACE page to PRIVATE!!! so that not just any chick can invite you as a friend......

Girls on Myspace??

OK, does your fiancee also have a myspace? How many guys does she add to her friends list? How many guys also add her as a 'friend'?