I know that my BF looks at porn and we have discussed it and I would prefer that we watch it together, but he often hides it. He just recently got a Myspace account and all of the people that he has looked for so far are girls with pictures that are as naked as myspace allows. I am worried because myspace is made of real people and he can contact them if he wants. I hate it b/c this wasnt even an issue 2 weeks ago. I am not going to break up with him or leave him for something so minor, but if anyone has a good suggestion for how to approach or work through this....I would appreciate it.
My BF looks for other girls (mostly naked) on myspace, should I react to this like normal porn?
He may not be comfortable looking at porn WITH you. Realize guys use that for private relief time and try looking at together once a in while to 'get in the mood' but give him space to tend to guy private needs and you may see the myspace stuff drop off.
As for contact- honestly don't worry 75% of those pics are probably fake or so old and she looks nothing like that now. Also if they aren't local no wrries you'll KNOW if he starts rushing off to meet new people the signs will be there. Show some trust and expect some in return it will make your relationship stronger.
In the end if he is looking for someone new it may have been doomed to start with but it sounds like you as a person and woman did the right moves and the break is probably just becuase he isn't ready or the right guy- keep looking you are a great catch if your willing to open about guys and porn online already!
My BF looks for other girls (mostly naked) on myspace, should I react to this like normal porn?
This isn't minor. He's looking at other girls for a reason. He's not happy or satisfied with you. If you want to work through it, ask him what you can do to keep his mind racing. Wear wigs so it's like he's with different women, try making your own porn and such. If that doesn't work, then you do need to break up with him. This is obviously an issue that bothers you, and if he doesn't listen and try to work this out together, it's never going to change.
My BF looks for other girls (mostly naked) on myspace, should I react to this like normal porn?
It is not minor, it is major, and yes, you should leave him over it if it doesn't stop immediately.
My BF looks for other girls (mostly naked) on myspace, should I react to this like normal porn?
Long as he is just looking,let it be normal porn and it might help the sex life if you are into that yet,but to get his goat let him know you do the same with guys and see how he will react to that.
My BF looks for other girls (mostly naked) on myspace, should I react to this like normal porn?
talk to him about it and it can be a little bit more the minor
My BF looks for other girls (mostly naked) on myspace, should I react to this like normal porn?
I am glad u wont break up with him. What he is doin is perfectly normal. ALL men like to look at other women, I like to look at other men. It does NOT mean he wants to meet them. I used to get very jealous wen my man looked at other women, so he started to hide it from me as well. Talk to him explain your fears and you will find you have nuthin to worry about
All the best
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